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悲惨人士的七个习惯

前言

注: 这是一篇英文翻译

标题: 7 habits of highly miserable people

作者: Dan Go(FitFounder, https://www.dango.co/)

为什么我会知道这些呢?因为我都曾经亲身经历过。

我在20岁左右,白天整天玩一些电子游戏,然后晚上喝酒,毫不在意自己的健康。

我先是感到对这种状况的极度不满,然后我开始锻炼。

虽然有点像陈词滥调,但如果我和其他人都能从恶习中走出来,那么你也能。

1. 他们的饮食高热量又无营养

吃太多会导致腹部脂肪堆积,增加肠道负担,进而影响到大脑。

同时,缺少关键的微量元素会导致出现心理健康问题。

如何改正? 健康饮食,多吃营养丰富的食物(蔬菜、全麦、豆类、坚果和种子)。

2. 他们睡眠不足

睡眠不足会像多米诺骨牌一样让人精神状态不佳。

短期内会让人难以控制情绪,做不出明智的决策,也控制不住食欲。

长期则会导致荷尔蒙紊乱并带来疾病。

如何应对?优先保证睡眠。

3. 他们从不锻炼

不锻炼是一张通往痛苦的单程票。

锻炼活动会刺激你的大脑分泌内啡肽,从而让你感到神清气爽。

此外,研究表明,锻炼对于心理健康的效果是药物的1.5倍。

如何应对?每天锻炼30分钟。

4. 他们接触大自然不足

长期暴露在蓝光下会打乱你的生物钟,导致抑郁和烦躁。

长期接触大自然则不会这样。

如何应对? 每天一个小时的户外活动。

5. 他们总是抱怨和扮演受害者

他们为自己的生活不自律找各种理由。

他们没有办成事情时就会怪罪到别人身上,他们总是想要不劳而获,得不到时又自怨自艾。

如何应对?自己的事情自己负责,自救。

6. 他们缺乏感恩之心

悲惨人士总是盯着那些自己没有的东西,却从不为自己有的东西怀有感激之心。

他们总是在不断的索取,这只会让他们感到更加空虚。

如何应对?每天想三件值得感激的事情。

7. 他们喜欢惹是生非

他们见不得别人过得好。

所以他们总要做点事情来搬弄是非,比如通过羞辱等幼稚手段来试图让别人感觉自己一文不值。

如何应对?停止憎恨他人,停止播弄是非。

总结

内容有点多,直接上干货:

  • 1.糟糕饮食
  • 2.睡眠不足
  • 3.不锻炼
  • 4.不接触大自然
  • 5.抱怨、装可怜
  • 6.无感恩之心
  • 7.惹是生非

如果你想要内心安宁,根据这个清单反着来就行了。

避免陷入悲惨的一个核心要点是在感到糟糕的时候立即停下来。

这个清单可以帮助你避坑,还可以看着你的生活奇迹般的变好。

词汇


  1. miserable, 悲惨, (of a person) wretchedly unhappy or uncomfortable: their happiness made Anne feel even more miserable. 

  2. consist, 组成, (consist of) be composed or made up of: the exhibition consists of 180 drawings. 

  3. extreme, 极度, reaching a high or the highest degree; very great: extreme cold. 

  4. satisfaction, 满意, fulfillment of one's wishes, expectations, or needs, or the pleasure derived from this: he smiled with satisfaction 

  5. cliche, 陈词滥调, a phrase or opinion that is overused and betrays a lack of original thought: the old cliché “one man's meat is another man's poison.”. 

  6. rut, 恶习, a habit or pattern of behavior that has become dull and unproductive but is hard to change: the administration was stuck in a rut and was losing its direction. 

  7. diet, 饮食, the kinds of food that a person, animal, or community habitually eats: a vegetarian diet | a specialist in diet. 

  8. calories, 卡路里、热量, a unit of energy, often used to express the nutritional value of foods: the milk derived from cashews is lactose-free and has fewer calories. 

  9. nutrition, 营养, the process of providing or obtaining the food necessary for health and growth: a guide to good nutrition. 

  10. excess, 过剩, an amount of something that is more than necessary, permitted, or desirable: are you suffering from an excess of stress in your life? 

  11. belly, 腹, the front part of the human trunk below the ribs, containing the stomach and bowels. 

  12. ruins, 废墟, the physical destruction or disintegration of something or the state of disintegrating or being destroyed: a large white house falling into gentle ruin. 

  13. gut, 肠, (also guts) the stomach or belly: a painful stabbing feeling in his gut. 

  14. impact, 冲击, (impact on) have a strong effect on someone or something: high interest rates have impacted on retail spending | [with object] : the move is not expected to impact the company's employees. 

  15. micronutrients, 微量营养素, a chemical element or substance required in trace amounts for the normal growth and development of living organisms. 

  16. mental, 心理, relating to disorders of the mind: mental health | a mental illness. 

  17. nutrient-dense, 营养丰富, (of food) having a high vitamin and mineral content in relation to its weight: opt for nutrient-dense foods like vegetables, whole grains, beans, nuts, and seeds. 

  18. domino, 多米诺, (dominoes) the game played with domino pieces, in which they are laid down to form a line, each player in turn trying to find and lay down a domino with a value matched by that of a piece at either end of the line already formed. 

  19. deprivation, 剥夺, the lack or denial of something considered to be a necessity: sleep deprivation. 

  20. emotion, 情绪, a natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others: she was attempting to control her emotions 

  21. make sound decision, 做出正确的决定, to evaluate a situation or a problem objectively with a clear head, calculate risks, and make an informed decision 

  22. appetite, 食欲, a natural desire to satisfy a bodily need, especially for food: he has a healthy appetite | they suffered from loss of appetite. 

  23. messe, 展览, make untidy or dirty: she scratched her head, messing her hair still further. 

  24. hormone, 荷尔蒙, a regulatory substance produced in an organism and transported in tissue fluids such as blood or sap to stimulate specific cells or tissues into action. 

  25. disease, 疾病, a disorder of structure or function in a human, animal, or plant, especially one that has a known cause and a distinctive group of symptoms, signs, or anatomical changes: a possible cause of heart disease. 

  26. prioritize, 优先, designate or treat (something) as more important than other things: prioritize your credit card debt. 

  27. misery, 苦难, a state or feeling of great distress or discomfort of mind or body: she went upstairs and cried in misery | he wrote endlessly about his frustrations and miseries. 

  28. stimulate, 刺激, raise levels of physiological or nervous activity in (the body or any biological system): the women are given fertility drugs to stimulate their ovaries. 

  29. endorphin, 内啡肽, any of a group of hormones secreted within the brain and nervous system and having a number of physiological functions. They are peptides which activate the body's opiate receptors, causing an analgesic effect. 

  30. medication, 药物, a substance used for medical treatment, especially a medicine or drug: certain medications can cause dizziness | he'd been taking medication for depression. 

  31. exposure, 暴露, the state of being exposed to contact with something: the dangers posed by exposure to asbestos. 

  32. disrupt, 破坏, interrupt (an event, activity, or process) by causing a disturbance or problem: a rail strike that could disrupt both passenger and freight service. 

  33. circadian, 生理, (of biological processes) recurring naturally on a twenty-four-hour cycle, even in the absence of light fluctuations: a circadian rhythm. 

  34. rhythm, 节奏, a strong, regular, repeated pattern of movement or sound: Ruth listened to the rhythm of his breathing. 

  35. depression, 抑郁症, feelings of severe despondency and dejection: self-doubt creeps in and that swiftly turns to depression. 

  36. irritability, 烦躁, the quality or state of being irritable: symptoms include insomnia and irritability. 

  37. opposite, 相反, having a position on the other or further side of something; facing something, especially something of the same type: a crowd gathered on the opposite side of the street. 

  38. victim, 受害者, a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action: victims of domestic violence | earthquake victims. 

  39. blame, 责怪, assign responsibility for a fault or wrong: the inquiry blamed the engineer for the accident. 

  40. handout, 施舍, something given free to a needy person or organization: hundreds of thousands of refugees subsist on international handouts. 

  41. gratitude, 感激, the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness: she expressed her gratitude to the committee for their support. 

  42. constant, 恒定, a situation or state of affairs that does not change: the condition of struggle remained a constant. 

  43. inevitably, 不可避免地, as is certain to happen; unavoidably: inevitably some details are already out of date | war inevitably has casualties. 

  44. fight, 吵架, take part in a violent struggle involving the exchange of physical blows or the use of weapons: the men were fighting | they fight with other children. 

  45. insult, 侮辱, speak to or treat with disrespect or scornful abuse: you're insulting the woman I love. 

  46. childish, 幼稚, of, like, or appropriate to a child: childish enthusiasm. 

  47. magically, 神奇, in a beautiful or delightful way: he played magically.